Philip Wm. Spicksley

Registered Independent Celebrant and Executive Chairman of the Association of Independent Celebrants

I focus on providing high-quality service and customer satisfaction and will do everything I can to exceed your expectations. I have over 10 years’ experience of conducting civil ceremonies, designing and writing personal services that are unique to the event which is being celebrated.

Civil Wedding Celebrations

In an ever increasing secular society more and more couples are opting for a celebration wedding ceremony.
My celebration ceremonies are written and unique to you as the special couple. Promises and exchanging of ring words can be chosen by you and you can have the opportunity of selecting your promises or composing your own words.

The ceremonies can be carried out at a suitable location chosen by you to make your day special. The ceremony is carried out following a formal civil ceremony held at a Register Office.  This format is based on the French tradition, where all weddings by law have to take place in the Register Office and are then followed by a ceremony in the church or hotel afterwards.

By celebrating the marriage in this manner, you are enabled to invite more guests than is normally permitted to attend a register office wedding.


Where I work.

I live in North Lincolnshire where I deliver bespoke ceremonies in all kinds of venues. I mainly work across all of Yorkshire, Lincolnshire and Nottinghamshire – but I am very happy to travel further afield, in the UK, or abroad.


Where to hold a ceremony.

You can hold your celebration at the location of your choice including:

  • Open air weddings
  • In your own garden
  • Home
  • Restaurants
  • Hotels
  • On the Beach
  • Sports Grounds

This type of celebration is ideal for those who do not want a church wedding and don’t want the expense of a big fancy hotel, preferring a more informal celebration in their own garden or a smaller function suite.

If the happy couple are blessed with children from a previous relationship, then I can design a ceremony which is not only a wedding celebration but also encompasses the whole family. By including the children the celebration will be one of cementing the family together.

If you have a child who has not been christened or named. Why not have a joint ceremony for the wedding and baby naming.

Celebrations following weddings abroad.
Nowadays it is popular for couples to fly off to a foreign country to get married. When they return to the UK they often feel the necessity of having a blessing ceremony to which they can invite all their family and friends who missed out on the wedding. I can design a ceremony for this occasion. The ceremony can take place early evening and be followed by a party.

Wedding Ceremonies following a Register Office ceremony.
Why not make your day special for your guests, I am taking bookings where the bride and groom do not tell their guests that the wedding is being celebrated before the main wedding reception. The few guests that go to the Register Office and the main body of guests at the reception are kept in secret about a more personalised ceremony conducted by me prior to the reception. This allows for a perfect start to the reception and allows all your guests to be included in your special day, rather than just the ones who are able to attend the Register Office.

Perhaps a Register Office cannot provide a Registrar to go out to a licensed for weddings venue at the time you want to hold your ceremony. I am taking bookings when Registrars are in this predicament. In these circumstances, couples have continued with the booking of the venue and engaged me to conduct a ceremony following a Registry Office ceremony a day or two before.

Bookings are also being taken when a couple want to have their wedding in the evening and follow through with an evening function instead of having a full afternoon and evening party.

Remember the choice is yours.
You have a ceremony designed by you in the comfort of your home, hold it wherever you want and at whatever time you want.

My fees are competitive to those offered by the Registrars Office. You do not need to book a registrar for a civil wedding celebration. You need only do so if you are getting married at the location.

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Alternative Wedding Ideas

Baby Naming and Wedding Ceremony all in one.
Cheryl and Philip recently asked me to carry out a joint ceremony at a hotel in Barton upon Humber.  Having married each other at the local registry office following the birth of their child Natasha,  they decided that they wanted a full wedding ceremony to include all their family and friends. We celebrated their marriage with an individual ceremony written for them and conducted at the hotel.  They celebrated their wedding by renewing their vows and commitment to each other before we listened to a piece of music and then celebrated the naming of their lovely baby girl. At the end of their joint ceremony, they walked out of the room as a family with mum carrying the baby.  This was a lovely, individual ceremony which was designed for them, taking their wishes into account.

Renewal of Vows.
Tracy and Richard celebrated their silver wedding by hiring the function suite at the Royal Hotel in Scunthorpe.  They invited their many friends and family, including as many as possible from their wedding day all those years ago. They told their guests that they were just having a party.  They surprised them by holding a renewal of vows ceremony, in which their children took part as one accompanied Tracy into the room and their other two children carried their rings in.

Evening Wedding.
Sue and John wanted an evening wedding at Arties Mill in Brigg.  This was carried out at 6 pm and followed by a formal reception to run on into the evening.

Garden Wedding.
Emily and Ian have planned their wedding to be held in the family garden.  They wish to have an outdoor wedding followed by a marquee reception.  We are planning a bespoke ceremony which will be designed and conducted to their instructions

Hi Phil
My husband to be booked our wedding as a supprise he arranged a celebrant met her and went through what he wanted. He then spent 4 months phoning her trying to get a response and no reply.

He decided to tell me about the supprise of which I was delighted but a little concerned to say the least about the lack of celebrant.
We went on the Internet and watched a you tube video of Phil Spicksley and phoned him and arranged a meeting.

He answered our first call and arrived on time, we were a little nervous and joked about the celebrant pimpanel.
Phil was very easy to talk to we had a coffee and a chat and he gave us a great deal of help in choosing the vows and readings and the sort of ceremony we wanted. Phil visited us a second time to make sure we were happy with everything.

When the big day came we were both quite nervous but Phil had a very calming effect on everything and he took control of the event without being controlling just in charge in a very respectful way. We had a lovely day and all thanks to Phil Spicksley, I would certainly recommend him to anyone he was excellent.

Kindest regards

Trudi Webster

Trudi Webster

As a member of the Association of Independent Celebrants, I am fully committed to providing a professional service to all my clients.
All members are automatically covered by our Comprehensive Insurance package, which includes both Public Liability and Professional Indemnity.


Just a few of the many kind words written by happy couples, following a Civil Wedding Ceremony conducted by me.

Wedding Burringham Village Hall

Hi Phil,
Just wanted to say a huge Thank You for conducting the ceremony at our Wedding celebration. The service was perfect, the words were just beautiful. There were some very emotional moments but touches of humour too. You really listened to what we wanted & made it very personal to us. The perfect start to a perfect day. Thank you.
Jeanette & Ian

Wedding at the Grand St Leger Hotel, Doncaster

Hi Phil.
Thank you for your kind words and your help and understanding on the day We had a wonderful day and so many of our guests remarked on how lovely they found the service.  Many thanks again
Paul & Maxine

Garden Wedding

Thank you so much for Sunday. The Ceremony was lovely and everyone said how nice and personal and relaxed it was.Sorry I didn’t get a chance to speak to you, but as soon as it was over – that was it, our feet didn’t touch the ground,but thank you again. 

20's themed Wedding Celebration at Cave Castle

Hi Philip, 
Thank you very much for conducting our ceremony and giving us the opportunity to do what we wanted, it was much better than we had hoped and ran so smoothly, so many people thanked us for inviting them and felt honoured to be at such an intimate ceremony (Obviously we were just as pleased they were there).  I was most uptight just before the big entrance but that dissolved into pure enjoyment when you started addressing the guests with our story and then running through the rest of the proceedings, as you know we were married earlier in the day in the register office, and the registrar was most annoyed with my lateness (15 minutes) and told Steve off!, she corrected my speech 3 times on the same sentence for ‘legal reasons’ which was most annoying as the rest of the party said I had said it properly anyway, (I would have felt humiliated in front of the 100 guests we had in the evening if that had happened then) 
Anyway thanks once again, we may be back to you about a christening appointment in the near future!

A lovely wedding yesterday for Lee and Nicola at West Carlton Guest House. It included a sand ceremony to symbolise the union of the family. Here I am presenting the bottle of sand to the bride and groom ...

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Frequently Asked Questions

Will this be like a proper wedding?

The ceremony will be a ‘Celebration Ceremony’  it includes all the elements of a Wedding Ceremony but I cannot pronounce you ‘Married’.  There is no need for guests to be aware of the slight differences that have to be considered.

Where can the ceremony be conducted?

Because this isn’t a legal ceremony, you are free to chose any place,  I have conducted ceremonies on the beach, football grounds, gardens and even in stately homes.  The choice is yours to make.

What are the limitations to the ceremony?

There are no limitations to your bespoke ceremony,  All my clients are individuals and their ceremony is  unique.  It is a blank canvas on which we can, together, paint their picture of a perfect wedding.  I provide each couple with a resource booklet containing readings, vows and ring word samples.  If you wish to write your own vows there is also help with that too.  Most of my ceremonies include a ceremony within the main ceremony such as a ‘Unity Candle’ or ‘Sand Ceremony’.

Do we receive a copy of the ceremony?

Following the ceremony I provide a copy of the ceremony, printed in a booklet presentation folder,  a certificate (if one is signed) and a copy of a DVD if the ceremony is recorded by me.

What are the legal requirements?

My ceremonies are a Celebration of the legal marriage that has previously taken place at a Registry Office.  It is the formal ceremony at the Registry Office that is the legal part of the marriage.  This can be carried out at any time before your ‘Celebration Ceremony’ conducted by me.  Each Registry Office has to provide a basic marriage service which usually costs around £50 plus a fee for checking the identity of the couple.   However, I must stress that few will see the difference between the ‘Celebration Ceremony’ and one conducted by a Registrar other than my ceremonies are more personal.

How is our ceremony put together?

When you book my services I secure the date with you.  I like to meet you in person and listen to what you would like your ceremony to include.  After providing you with a copy of my Insurance and the required legal contract forms we start to plan your unique ceremony.  It can include things like a Sand Ceremony, Unity Candle, hand fasting or even jumping over the broom.  Using the skills I have from over 10 years experience we can mould a ceremony that you will treasure in your memory.  If you wish to have a rehearsal then this can be arranged either at the time of booking or nearer the day.   I ensure that a full copy of your ceremony is sent to you before the ceremony so that you ensure it is just what you have asked for.

Where I work.

I live in North East Lincolnshire where I deliver bespoke ceremonies in all kinds of venues. I mainly work across all of Yorkshire, Lincolnshire and Nottinghamshire – but I am very happy to travel further afield, in the UK, or abroad.

What are your terms and conditions?

Philip Wm. Spicksley
Registered Celebrant
President of the Association of Independent Celebrants

72a Westfield Rd
Barton Upon Humber
DN18 5AD
Tel.  01652 634063
Mobile 07783323324

Standard Terms & Conditions

– Bookings are accepted in good faith, based on the information provided by the client, and are deemed to be accepted only when the deposit/ booking fee is paid and acknowledged in writing, including by email.
– The deposit/ booking fee is deducted from the final account. In the event of cancellation, it may be non-returnable – see Cancellation Charges below.
– The balance of the account is payable 30 days prior to the event unless otherwise agreed.
– The fee quoted is inclusive of travel based on a 20-mile distance from Barton Upon Humber, North Lincolnshire and is guaranteed for 30 days from the date of the written confirmation.
– The right is reserved to increase the fee payable due to altered instructions of engagement, e.g. time at the event being extended or the venue changed.
– Every effort is made in good faith to fulfil the engagement, but responsibility cannot be accepted for non-arrival due to circumstances beyond my control, e.g., to include such events as extreme weather conditions, industrial action, failure of public services etc.
– In the event of non-arrival, a refund will be made to the client, according to the circumstances prevailing.
– In the event of illness, every effort will be made to provide a substitute Celebrant and to pass on full details of the booking and planning documentation for the event. No additional fee will be charged.

Cancellation Charges
In the event of cancellation by the client for any reason, the following charges will apply from acceptance of a booking:

6 months or more prior to the event = Forfeit of deposit
3 – 6 months prior to the event = 50% of fee
1 – 2 months prior to the event = 75% of fee
Within 1 month prior to the event = Full fee payable

Cancellations will only accepted in writing to the postal address above. Regrettably, telephone, fax or emails cannot be accepted.

Why should I use a Phil Spicksley as my Celebrant?
I have been a Celebrant now for 10 years,  I have also been a member of the Association of Independent Celebrants for all of that time too.  I have been the President of the Association for over 4 years.  During this time I have gained much experience especially in relation to the ever-changing face of Civil Ceremonies.  I have been consulted by the Government in relation to changes in the Marriage Act, but more importantly, as a member of the AOIC I have full Public Liability and Professional Indemnity Insurance.This is more important that you think. Lots of Celebrants work without any insurance.The AOIC ensure that all members have full insurance in the event of mistakes, non-arrival or circumstances beyond the Celebrants control.  I also have to act within the constraints of the AOIC Codes of Practice which ensure that all clients have the right to report any problems to the AOIC for investigation. All these elements of working within the framework of the AOIC ensures that you receive the best professional service possible.


All fees include a meeting to plan the event, the service of writing the ceremony and agreeing to the content via email.
My Fees start from as little as:
£240 for a Baby naming in North Lincolnshire and surrounding area.
£360 for a Wedding or Renewal of Vows Ceremony in North Lincolnshire and surrounding areas.
Additional costs will be calculated depending on the travel distance and whether or not additional meetings are required i.e. rehearsals.

Get in touch today, to check dates and availability.

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